CYBER BULLYING

I THOUGHT WRONG

A bully is a person who torments kids by means of punching them with no valid reason, making fun of them, humiliate them in front of a huge crowd and do anything to hurt you physically or emotionally. Usually a bully is a boy; they have brawns but believe me they do not have brains at all or so I thought. The first time I have ever heard the word bully was when I was watching “MEAN GIRLS”. It is about a bunch of sexy fine young teens who tries their best to be popular and be mean to others. They would back fight them by putting their pictures in a pink book where they can say cruel stuff about their victim; they would lie to if they must just to have some juicy gossips about them.

Nowadays even in the internet we experience bullying. Yes, you can be bullied too through the internet it’s called “cyber bullying” and No, no hands are coming out from the computer screen to knock you out just to say that you’re being downtrodden. Bullying in the internet is quite different from the bullying you knew. In this kind of oppression, teens tend to say something nasty about you without holding back. Moreover, since the World Wide Web is open for everybody, you can change your name and intimidate someone without him or her knowing who you really are. Amazing is it not, who knew bullies could be such a genius and use the internet to spread their wickedness. These guys have brains, in fact they have huge brains. That is why; let us congratulate them for making us feel that we are browbeaten all the time. Let us congratulate them for making us feel that we cannot do anything good in this world, because they are so harsh and cruel that they are the only human being good enough to live.

THE WORLD OF CYBER BULLIES

The term "cyber bullying" was first coined and defined by Bill Belsey, as "the use of information and communication technologies to support deliberate, repeated, and hostile behaviour by an individual or group that is intended to harm others." That is based on what I’ve read about the definition of cyber bullying on google.

Cyber bullying is as simple as stabbing someone at the back. Bullies tend to send-email to someone who has said they want no further contact with the sender, but it may also include threats, sexual remarks, pejorative labels, ganging up on victims by making them the subject of ridicule in forums, and posting false statements as fact aimed at humiliation.

CYBER BULLYING VS. CYBER HARASSMENT

The practice of cyber-bullying is not just only for little children and teens, while this behavior is

identified by the same definitions in adults, the difference in age groups is sometimees referred to as cyber stalking or cyber harassment. In this kind of oppression, cyber stalkers are to threaten a victim’s family, social life, employment, reputation or safety. This event takes place usually on social networking sites, cyber stalkers may record victims say and replay the recordings in a way that humiliates them. An adult will repeat this cycle against the target.

CYBER BULLYING A CAUSE OF DEATH

Cyber bullying is always present in social networks showing poor innocent youngsters no mercy by posting degrading messages in their inbox or sometime even worse. They could spread rumor through the internet of how horrendous you are, dumb people would believe this and they would start sending you bunch of lovely letters regarding the allegation. And when you open your account, you’ll be surprise to see your inbox almost full of scandalous notes about your past actions or whatever rumor is charged against you. This could affect your life because of the fact that people believed you did something wrong. They would look down to you with such disgust with their hypercritical eyes and as a result, you will be paranoid.

Many cases in social networking site that victims of cyber bullying or cyber harassments commits suicide. An example of this case is an Irish native Phoebe Prince who committed suicide in January 14 prior to her death, because it was believed that nine teenagers bullied her. Prince’s death has drawn significant attention to the panic surrounding cyber bullying, a factor initially thought to have been related to Pilkington’s suicide. A facebook group calling for the expulsion of “three girls” believed to have pushed Prince to take her life has over 23,000 members.

STAND UP

This is such an unhealthy activity especially for teens because they might get depressed

and most importantly affect their social life. A victim of this kind of mistreatment should not allow this issue to take over his or his life. It causes a great deal of humiliation and self-restraint on everything you do. Let us stand for ourselves and do not believe on whatever we see on the internet, because we know for ourselves that we haven’t done anything wrong. All we know is that we live our lives the way we wanted it to be and all those bullies out there trying to bring us down are just jealous of what we have. Never let those false rumors be the cause of your downfall, because if you do, then might as well be a bully yourself. If you cannot beat them join them, but since I don’t want to join then I shall beat them. Simple.

Aina Tolero

the artist in me

I love anime a lot. I mean when I was a little kid, anime was my life. I use to make some role plays in my head with some anime characters and sleep all the way. I know I am talented and one of this talent is sketching or drawing anime or other stuff.

This on the right, is my anime drawing. I have no idea who this character is. This sketch is almost 3 years old I think? I forgot. And the one holding this sketch is ME. The beautiful me.

And this one is a drawing of mine of MOKONA and some POKEMON i saw in a magazine. This is what happens when boredom strikes me. It would make me do some things.

This one on the right is a drawing of mine of some anime about final fantasy I think? I am not familiar with anime today.

I thought I'd share my talent with the world although the proportions are not that perfect. I strive for the best. At least I know for myself that I can draw. Yay me.

Dad told me that on his side of the family he doesn't have any relative that could draw, but when my cousin from leyte came and live with us. It changed my whole perception, he is damn good about this stuff and I envy him. But that's okay, GOD made me this way and I love it.

alphabet with ainz

A- AVAILABLE: a hundred percent available :))

B – Birthday: february five..

C- CRUSHING ON: too many to mention . haha ^^

D - DRINK YOU LAST HAD: mango shake. yummy!

E - EASIEST PERSON TO TALK TO: friends :))

F - FAVORITE SONG: OLD SCHOOL MUSIC :))

G - GUMMY BEARS OR GUMMY WORMS: GUMMY BEARS!!!!

H – HOMETOWN: BULAN. [the moon]

I - IN LOVE WITH: my imaginary BOYFRIEND.. and GOD.

K - KILLED SOMEONE: pwede ba sa someone yung IPIS?

L - LONGEST CAR RIDE: ewan ko ba!! ang alam ko pag sumakay ako ng kotse, zzzZZZZ...

M - MILKSHAKE FLAVOR: mango and chocolate

N - NUMBER OF SIBLINGS: 5

O - ONE WISH: sana ma realize ng tao kung gaano nahihirapan ang mother earth, para naman matauhan sila sa mga ginagawa nila sa mundo. :))

P - PERSON THAT CALLED YOU LAST: MAMA

R - REASON TO SMILE: when someone smile :) nadadala nalang ako

S - SONG YOU LAST SANG: SUPER BASS ..(nag rap kami ni jason )

T - TIME YOU WOKE UP: mga 8 or seven

U - UNDERWEAR COLOR: yellow green

V - VEGETABLE: uhh-- KALABASA and MONGGO

W - WORST HABIT: TAMAD to the HIGHES DEGREE!!!! and NEGA STAR for all SEASON :))

X - X-RAYS YOU'VE HAD: heart and chest x-ray

Y - YEARS LIVING WHERE YOU LIVE: 17

Z - ZODIAC SIGN: aquarius

RANDOM QUESTIONS!!!

Spell your name without vowels: N TLRO

What color do you wear most?: black, white,

Least favorite colors?: PINK

What are you listening to?: TROLOLOL and PAPA JACK.

What is your favorite class in school?: CONSTI?? haha PHILIPPINE LITERATURE and RECESS.

Are you outgoing?: syempre naman!

Can you dance?: hamon ba ito?

Can you tie a cherry stem with your mouth?: What is cherry?? ahaha char! hindi no!

Can you whistle?: YES

Cross your eyes?: YES

THE DO'S

Do you believe there is life on other planets?: YES, galing po kasi ako dun! :)) LOL

Do you believe in miracles?: ABSOLUTELY

Do you believe in magic? YES!!!

Love at first sight?: NOOOO!!

Do you believe in Santa?: YES, until now inaantay ko yung SAKURA CARDS na winish ko sakanya! :(( SANTA! IBIGAY MO NA! GOOD GIRL AKO!

Do you like roller coasters?: NOOOOO!! NOOO!! and NOOOO!!!

What radio station do you listen to?: OK FM and LOVE RADIO

What was the last thing you bought?: mango shake

What was the last thing on TV you watched?: BATTLE LOS ANGELES

Who was the last person you took a picture of?: uh-- my baby brother.

Ever really cried your heart out?: yeh! and ayoko na maulit yun...

Ever cried on your friend's shoulder?: ilang beses na

Ever cried over the opposite sex?: yeah!

Do you cry when you get an injury?: oo naman

Do songs make you cry?: oo lalo na yung patama?

Are you a happy person?: ALWAYS!

What is your current hair color?: dark brown

CURRENTLY WEARING?: short and t-shirt :))

What are you wearing?: LONG GOWN! ulit ulit aa.

Bracelets?: silver bracelet :)

Your eye color?: dark brown

Short or long hair?: short

Height?:. ewan.. cannot be define

WHAT TO DO: Fill out these questions and make a new note called 'ABC About You.' Then tag at least 25 people. If I tagged you, YOU HAVE TO take this survey and repost it! Don't forget to tag me because I want to know more about you! :)

Confession of Crime

I committed a crime years ago. My hands were soaked by water of sins. I will forever carry this burden in my heart until the day I finally gave up my life. This crime has no witness, but me. In fact I was the only one who did this act. God on the other hand were only watching me, observing me, creating a solution maybe on I am doing. While the Devil himself happily seated in front of me, enjoying the every single thing i did.

I wish to never reveal this secret of mine that I've been hiding for so many years. I wish to let go of the past, as I would like to let go of this behavior. This secret is by far the worst sin I have ever committed in my entire life. This will, I assure you, put me in hell by the time I die. People say, that God forgives you for whatever sins you did. I believe them, but repenting that sin and repeating it over again will only make things worse. You think God will still forgive me for what I've done? In my own opinion no. I am only making things difficult for me. I am trying to overcome this, this obsession of mine still the devil is beside me pushing me to do it again.

I know that God is always right next to me, shining my way to the right path that I must take. Yet, I blind myself with useless visions that made me ignore things God made for me. I ignored every single details in my life that could have made me even more happier. I am a disappointment. I disappoint myself, even I disgust myself.

You see me as a happy individual, but inside I am an evil bitch consumed with lustful behaviors that makes the devil the most happiest man alive. How I wish I could turn back the time and prevent myself from doing this. I wish that I could still, in my age stop this ridicule situation of mine so that I could focus on my goals.

I never told anyone of this thing, and I never would. When I tell them about my little secret, they will think of me as an imprudent child. They will spit on me, curse me, and even try to kill me. My parents would have to change their names and disgrace me. They would have to stay away from me like I had a virus. Maybe I do have a virus, a virus not contagious. But a virus that could make me the most hated person on earth.

I don't even know why I bothered writing this on my blog. Maybe because I'm confident that no one is reading this.

God, I pray again this time. To help me eliminate those things in my mind that will make me ruin my whole career, that would someday bring me down. Help me please, to repent my sins and never have to do it again. I am tired of sleepless nights trying to think of ways to get rid of those ridicule moments that haunts me in my sleep. I pray for my soul to be cleansed and purify. I pray for my family to not hate me, if someday they will find out of my secret. I pray for me God, please help me.

Amen.

SPELL DISSAPOINTMENT

First of all here's a message for those people who might have the chance to read this little work of mine.

What I'm about to post is neither about hatred nor amusement of the event. What I'm about to post is non other than my sentiments about the said event. I don't mean to hate the host, the council, the whole staff who made the pageant as beautiful as possible, but I find it a little bit disappointing. Do I need to spell it out? So I'm sorry for those readers who thought I would post remarkable stuff about it. Shall we start?

For everyone's benefit my post is a critic of the pageant I watched in our campus. I’ve heard a lot of good comments about the previous pageant, and so I was expecting that this year’s display would at least exceed my expectations. And to my surprise it did, it did exceed my expectations to disappointment.

Yes, I was disappointed not just by the result but also because of the freaking host who I assumed forget about or course? You may ask why I made it a big deal. Well for your information people of the earth. My course maybe new but at least gave us the same respect as the other courses have. I am not your typical student who would just sit around and let this little false action go by. What happened was like this:

The host was having a roll call of the courses first they called the first course and then the guy switched it to calling the year level. I mean what the happened? Is he on outer space right now; is he spacing out or nervous maybe? The girl host specifically said that they would be calling by department, the course the college was offering, the course the students were taking, the course wherein the students strive for their best for excellence. Now why on earth would this male emcee change it by calling the year level? I just shrugged everything off and continued my chit chattering with my good friend who was sitting right next to me. The next thing was a bit irritating, when the female emcee repeated the roll call of by department, our department was not called. Not even once. I did not even hear the first letter B, none. I thought my ears were just kidding around, or maybe I forgot to clean my ears again. But, before I went out of my room I assure you I cleaned my ears twice.

So, he did not call our course big deal? Yes it’s a big deal; it’s unfair for us because he called the other department not once but thrice. But our course not even a single murmur was heard from his dried lips. Now tell me, should I still keep it to myself, this annoying fact that this host, emcee, forgot that there is a new course in our campus. Did he forget about it or did he intend to fail to remember that there is an existing course such us mine being studied in our campus. I was so pissed that time that I wanted to throw my cell phone at him, or maybe ran straight to the stage and strangle him. Yes that is how mad I am that time and I am not afraid to admit it.

Next thing to be discussed is the “UNTIDINESS OF THE STAGE”. I heard this group of teens from our back stating their opinions of how untidy the stage was. I think I would agree with them, others were saying that the council didn’t give enough budgets for the preparation of the stage but did prepare something for their formal attire. The officers were ravishing that night and I admired their beauty. But if it hadn’t been to those blabbering students behind me commenting about the disorderliness of the place I would have never thought of it the same way. I know that the theme was all about crimes and being caught for that offense but it didn’t mean that the platform was supposed to look like some people threw yellow paper around it and placed the some drums around.

I think that would be it, as for the result of the pageant well I’ll keep the thought for myself.